I Am Peaceful

The Lord is at hand;  

do not be anxious about anything, 

but in everything

 by prayer and supplication

 with thanksgiving

 let your requests be made known to God.  

And the peace of God, 

which surpasses all understanding, 

will guard your hearts

 and your minds in Christ Jesus. 

Philippians 4:5-7

Good morning, Girlfriends!

How are you today? 

"I am peaceful; thank you for asking."

I am interested to know how many of you would respond to that question this way? If I had to guess, I'd say, oh, about....ZERO. In today's world, peace does not seem to be the reigning state of mind or heart. Instead, we are more likely to be anxious, stressed out, busy, occupied, sad, concerned, depressed, or sick. Once in a while, that questions catches us on a good day--probably a Saturday--and we might respond with a more positive tone, proclaiming temporary happiness and contentment. Check back a day or two later, though, and most likely we will have reverted back to the former answers. Ladies, I admit, I have never heard anyone, including myself, admit to a peace-filled state of existence. Never. Not once.

Until today. 

Surprise! The words came straight out of ME. Yes, Girlfriends, I am peaceful. Thank you for asking. 

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. John 14:7 ESV

Not as the world gives...

Ladies, I have every earthly reason to be in a state of complete turmoil and emotional upheaval right now: 

1. I am married. I am a mother. I am a daughter. 2. My husband started a new job five states away this week. I miss him. 3. We are moving. I am still here, trying to sell our house in an over-saturated, deflated market. We are going to lose thousands of dollars. 4. My teenage son does not want to move. I am the mom he loves, but I am the enemy moving him. Love/hate relationships. I feel his pain. 5. Another daughter left home to college last month. I miss my babies, aka my lovely daughters. I am trying to be a good, long-distance parent, nurturing tender wings as they encounter the harsh winds of real life. 6. My oldest daughter is in extreme physical pain from a life-altering, medical error. I hurt because she is hurting. I can't fix it. I am pleading with God to heal her. She wants answers, including Why? I can't answer. I try to lead her to the One who can. 7. This same daughter's husband started a new job this week. She is moving to the opposite coast from where I am moving. 8. I am going to miss my mom. And sister. And mom-in-law. And girlfriends. I wish I had been a better daughter. I want to take them with me. 

"I am peaceful; thank you for asking."

Girlfriends, in the midst of life's pandemonium, this tumultuous turmoil, I have peace. Despite all these circumstances swirling around me, surpassing all understanding, the peace of Christ is guarding my heart and mind. 

Peace did not find me, however. I had to go after it. Go after Him. Seek Him. Pursue Peace. God, in His grace and mercy, offered me His peace but the work was mine to do. Do not get me wrong. I did not earn it. Peace was freely given to me. But I had to choose to claim it. I could be anxious and worried, stressed and depressed, or I could follow His Word:

do not be anxious about anything, 

but in everything

 by prayer and supplication

 with thanksgiving

 let your requests be made known to God. Phil 4:5-6

My peace comes from trusting God. I give Him thanks and praise, even in the difficult times. I believe He is who and what He says He is. As proof, which we humans seem to demand, I stand on His examples of past faithfulness. To me. To my family. To others I know. To His beloved people written about in His Word. I submit my life to Him: the good, the bad, the ugly, the in-between. I chose to offer every issue up in prayer and then trust in His will and His plan, which is far greater than I will ever understand. 

For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
    neither are your ways my ways,”
declares the Lord.“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
    so are my ways higher than your ways
    and my thoughts than your thoughts."

Isaiah 55:8-9

Ladies, peace is yours. Take hold of God's will for you. I pray today that you will seek the peace that passes all understanding. Do not sit idly by, waiting for it to come upon you. Do the work. Make the choice. I pray you will choose Jesus. Give thanks. Give praise. Lift up your face. Lift up your life daily. Peace is lasting but your efforts cannot be fleeting: prayer today, gone tomorrow. Be consistent and persistent in your pursuit. And be patient. Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD. Psalm 27:14

So, I ask you Girlfriends, how are you today?

Peace be with you.

Seek Ye First

But seek first the kingdom of God 

and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.  

Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow,

 for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. 

Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

Matthew 6:33-34 ESV

Helloooooooooo, Girlfriends!

Can you hear me across the miles and the expanse of time that has separated us this summer? I certainly hope so because I am longing to connect with you. Having been bogged down with a plethora of moving details, I longed to write but either found no time, energy, or, sadly, inspiration to put into words all that has transpired since early July. My desire to sit at the computer and convey my thoughts battled with a gnawing inside that told me only negativism would pour forth. I convinced myself that the words I would write in the midst of my confusion, stress, and sometimes sadness would dishonor God. So, silence and separation ensued.

Fortunately, I heard a Word from God last weekend that moved me out of my complacency. And, Girlfriends, would you believe those words came through a man? Gasp! I know. A man. But a good man, I will have you know, and his name is Pastor Mark Andreson from Calvary Church in Lemont.

Pastor Mark and his wife/son are moving to Indonesia to work in Christian ministry, bringing light to a dark place in the world. This fact was only recently revealed to our congregation, and last Sunday was Pastor Mark's farewell sermon. As I sat listening to his discourse, I marveled at God's timing and universalism, knowing that His Word, which is so precious to Mark and Kim at this time in their transition, was also penetrating the hearts of others in the audience, especially mine.

Like an arrow, one point in particular shot straight into my soul, and its source is today's key verse. Let me give it to you also from the Good News Bible translation:

Instead, be concerned above everything else with the Kingdom of God and with what he requires of you, and he will provide you with all these other things. So do not worry about tomorrow; it will have enough worries of its own. There is no need to add to the troubles each day brings.

Is anyone else feeling like God just sat you down in a chair, took your chin in His hand and lifted your face, saying, "Look at me and listen up?" Well, that is exactly what I pictured Him doing to me as I absorbed Pastor Mark's message.

God's voice boomed: "Seek Me first and foremost: in the morning when you rise; in the day as you perform; and in the evening before you close your eyes to rest. I am the Alpha and the Omega; let your life reflect Me."

My heart heard God's reprimands loudly and clearly. I had put my worldly needs first, allowing worry and frustration to rule each day, to the point that I could not do the good works He has prepared for me in advance. (Ephesians 2:10) I could not write to you, my dear Girlfriends, and bring God's Word alive through His power from my fingers on a laptop because my anxious brain committed these hands to hours of internet searches for real estate issues, schools, housing, employment, medical insurance, and a multitude of other items that accompany a relocation. I missed opportunity after opportunity all around me to connect hearts and minds with God's Word because my own heart and mind were so far removed from Him. In essence, even though God has always proven His faithfulness to me, I trusted my ability to coordinate this move more than I trusted His power to put into place everything He already begun when He selected my husband for this new job.

"Seek ye first the kingdom of God..." Do not get me wrong. I am not saying that God did not have tasks for me to complete to make this move, or any of the summer's events, happen. To the contrary, I realize that God assigns us work--I read the Bible and see many examples of God's people laboring hard. But what Pastor Mark so eloquently pointed out is that when we keep our mind on God, His Kingdom, and His righteousness before, during, and after our work, all the things we need are added unto us--and added without the stress and anxiety created by worry. Additionally, we find that we have time along the way to serve the people He places in our paths here and now. In other words, we do not miss today's opportunities because our brain is consumed with thoughts of tomorrow, or next week, or next month. He will give us plenty of people to bless then as well!

So, ladies, I have to give credit for my return to blogging to God first, and then to Pastor Mark for sharing with us God's message to him. I am so excited to write again and be a part of your day, sharing God's love and mine with you. I pray you will hear what the Lord has to speak into your life from today's verses and that you will always seek Him first. Enjoy your Labor Day weekend, remembering that our labor is indeed blessed by Him when we focus on His kingdom and His righteousness, not our own glory, fame and fortune.

Finally, I want to pray God's mighty blessing upon the Andreson family, their relocation process, and the work they will do in Indonesia. I am happy to share Pastor Mark's other verses from last Sunday's sermon in hope that you too will find power and rest in Him. Blessings to all!

Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.1 Peter 5:6-11

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  Philippians 4:6-7